Humor is OK, too; and perhaps dirty talk. Some people can use this opportunity to talk in ways or say things that may not have felt comfortable with during vanilla sex …
Starting the Scene
Using breathing techniques to keep centered increases awareness of being in our bodies and makes it easier to project our power outward. Take a comfortable seat, take a few deep breaths and begin.
Call in your “serving maid.” Tell him/her to come close to you and be seen. Have him/her slowly undress before you and fold the clothes in a neat pile on the floor. Order him/her to get on hands and knees. Command that he/she put the clothes in a location of your choice while you watch her crawl. Comment on his/her beauty, like you would a fine new acquisition. Caress your new toy gently and slowly.
Take the collar in your hands. Stand up and ask if he/she is ready to accept your collar as a symbol of willing submission. State how you wish to be addressed: Sir, Madam, My Lady, Lord, Master or Mistress, etc. Now is a good time to remind yourselves of the yellow and red safewords.
Humor is OK, too; and perhaps dirty talk. Some people can use this opportunity to talk in ways or say things that may not have felt comfortable with during vanilla sex … for example, “you are such a little slut aren’t you,” or “my, you look pretty. Are you trying to look prettier than me?” The word “cocksucker” always seems to be a big turn on word. After all, it’s about having a good time, that’s why we call it play.
Taking Control of the Action
Do you want your bottom’s eyes lowered to the floor, or looking up at you? Keep your orders simple and precise. See how they are followed.
Be just. If your submissive is good and attentive, give a reward, touch him/her sweetly, turn them on. If the service is bad, or your orders are not followed properly “punish” them. Give him/her five good whacks with the wooden spoon! It is possible that your partner might be sassy and seek some light humiliation or more pain. See how that feels to you. Don’t get angry. Remember that you are both playing.
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